Tuesday, January 1, 2008
-Happy 2008=)
Happy 2008 to one and all=)
May you all have a pleasant and great journey of you. :)
Hahs! Being the First Day of 2008, Im feeling kinda tired or exhausted even! *Hurhur*
Reason being- Was sleeping soundly when Mummy dearest woke me up for breakfast. I kid you not! We went all the wayyy to AMK for ba kun teh, because dad was craving for it!
*Yummilicious*After finish our breakfast, we was heading home with dad driving us home. Dad being so blurry has lost his way while he was driving us back home. And somewhat, we ended up at Airport Road, that is where
Paya Lebar Airbase located. Hahs! I show dad the way out from the
Airbase, and the direct to Eunos was the right way back to our place. I sound pro right??
*Laughs*
But sad to say, I failed my Basic Driving Theory last year. Anyways, it's already over, so I might be going to for another try in the later part of year when I got myself a job right. =) *Hurhur*
Alright, I've therefore read up Bestie Jie blog, and I somehow sense that she isn't feeling alright.
Reason being- I text her in the wee night, and she the way she replied me was kinda emotional. I hope that she will be alright. I guess it gotta do with relationship problem again.
I've posted the below in the last few blog post. Repost again for Bestie Jie.
Know When To Let Go- When To Walk Away!
Sometimes you have to just walk away. We all hate to fail, hate to give up, hate to give in. We love the challenge of life and want to keep on until whatever we are trying to "win" has been overcome vanquished, beaten, won. But sometimes it just ain't going to happen and we need to learn to recognize those moments, learn how to philosophically shrug and walk away with our pride intact and our dignity high.
Sometimes you really want to do something, but it is unrealistic. Instead of knocking yourself out, cultivate the art of knowing when to walk away and you'll find it a lot less stressful.
If a relationship is coming to its end, instead of playing out long and complicated- and potentially hurtful-end games, learn the art of walking away. If it's dead, leave it. This isn't a rule that should be in the relationship section- it's here because it is for you, to protect you, to nurture you. This is nothing to do with "them" but all to do with you. If it's dead, don't go digging it up every five minutes to check if there's a pulse. It's dead, walk away.
You may want to get even- don't get mad, walk away. This is much better than getting even because it shows you have risen above whatever it is that is driving you crazy. And there can be no better way of getting even than to ignore something so completely it can be left behind.
Letting go and walking away means you are exercising control and good decision- making powers- you are making your choice rather than letting the situation control you.
I don't want to be rude but your problems-hey, my problems too-won't even warrant a footnote in the history of the universe. Walking away now and look back after ten years and I bet you'll be hard pushed to even remember what it was all about. No, this isn't a "time is the best healer" crusade, but putting space and time between you and your troubles does give you a wider view, a better perspective. And the way to do that is to walk away, put that space there. Time will put itself there, in time of course.
Yea, there's no right or wrong in a relationship. What it's matter is being happy. I wanna share this with Bestie Jie:
The beginnings of romance is always sweet, yet learning how to protect, prune and ensure that the romance would bear fruit is yet such a formidable task... ...She reckon somehow, somewhere along the lines he
(Bestie Jie's bf) got so emotionally drained by trying so hard to tame the
fiery wildchild in her that she sensed him giving up; The space between them was widening, yet she chose to ignore the subtle warning signs that were all over everywhere... Gone were the random surprises, the extra mile that he would go through in the past to put smiles on her face... The spark in their eyes, the once special feeling that they shared...
The cynic in her now reflects and now wonders if all that was said and done were just a front? Was it all just part of an act to show to the rest of her dearest friends that he just wanted people to know that she've got a wonderful partner? Had it really been entirely from the heart, would he have came up with a huge pack of elaborate lies, not just to herself, but even to her closest group of girlfriends about everything? What was going through his mind at that very moment, she wonder?
For he
(Bestie Jie's bf) know that
she hate people lying to her, yet in wanting to touch her with his sincerity, the underlying fact was that it was just material things of wants than needs; she thought he
(Bestie Jie's bf) knew what she wanted,
she merely wanted a secure and sincere heart that cared and cherished her for who she am; Someone who would laugh and say that she's a silly lil' girl when she act all bimbotic and "Puss-in-Boots"-like... Someone who would listen and wouldn't judge, but would want her to become a better person by giving his utmost support by just being there by my side... Someone whom would walk beside her hand-in-hand and embrace her imperfections and insecurities with open arms and an open heart...
Did he
(Bestie Jie's bf) have to chide, behind her back, saying that without him she'd be completely nothing? Did he
(Bestie Jie's bf) have to say that he's throwing in the towel when if he
(Bestie Jie's bf) really did want the best for her, he(Bestie Jie's bf) would be there to guide her along the way to become a better person, and give her the support and encouragement that she needed?
True love would find a way; Indifferences would merely find excuses...Relationships are meant to be sacred, yet he(bestie Jie's bf) betrayed the trust she had for him.
It truly doesn't matter anymore...
for Love has retreated to a town called yesterday...
The fiery passions extinguished, reduced to a flame...
Which would be snuffed out, upon the light of yet another day...
(Just IMAGINE it rhymes, kay?!?! :P)Thus, I urge her not to do any silly/foolish stuff to hurt yourself, because guys isn't worth the pain. Because they never realise what they gf done for them, or just to please them. Sorry no offend to guys. :P
After all, we girls loved to be pamper by their sweetheart, be in physically or mentally, guys will make the best to bring smiley on their gfs face. :P
All we girls want- a lovely boyfriend, who would go the extra mile to act all silly or goofy to make our day. One whom would be there when we near him, one whom will always be here giving us those silly surprises and what-nots. =)
I hope that Bestie Jie will heed my advice and continue to be happy in days to come by. =)
*LoVes*Labels: Life
Carrie;eirrac: 1/01/2008 12:38:00 PM ♥
