Tuesday, November 20, 2007
-What's Life!
Yea Im here talking about life because I've felt that life is a series bitter/sour/sweet moment...
Why do I choose to talk about life on this blog post?
As I hope that what Im gonna say will somewhat help with one of my bestie, that she's facing.
We are here to learn lessons, and the world is our teacher.
Why do I say so?
During our most down moments, we tend to cry over the problem that has occurs and we couldnt do much and just to let it wash away after the cries has stop. Be it in a relationship, there's a party who often make someone felt hurt and much heartache. In some way, I often urge her not to think so much when you're blissfully attached. Well, there's pros and cons when you're blissfully attached.
On the sidenote, I went to read her blog post about the problems that she is encountering. I know isnt easy to get over a hurt from someone who you love the most. As what she stated "伤你最深的总是你最深爱的人". Why I cant totally agree but its netural all I can say.
Our thoughts attract and create circumstances. As we change, we attract different circumstances. Until we learn a lesson about, work, lover we either, stuck on the same lesson, or keep getting the same lesson in different packages.
In a nutshell, life goes like. We get hit by little pebbles- as a kind of warning. When we ignore the pebbles, we get hit by a brick. Ignore the brick we get wiped out a boulder. If we're honest, we can see where we have ignored the warning signs. And then we have the nerve to say: "why me"?
Living and Learning"It's only by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter truns out to be the source of what you were looking for".Life doesnt always have to be painful- but pain is still the main reason we change. Until we are in pain, we can pretend. Our eog says: "Im fine". When things hurt enough, or scared enough, we become vulnerable. Our ego has no more answers, and we open up. Pain encouarges us to get serious.
In a nutshell, every person who walks into your life is teacher. Even if they drive you nuts, they teach you because they show you where your limits are. Just because people are your teachers doesnt mean you have to like them.
Life is a bit like a ladder. To move up, we have to fix the step we're on- whether its work, relationship, money, whatever. Once the step is fixed, we move to the next step. People handle their steps in different ways. *Wry smiles*
To admit, Im having a heart to heart chat with bestie Jie AKA Evelyn via MSN. Well, she's still kinda upset over a certain of issue, however Im sorry that I cant help much. But I can only give you advice and hope you'll heed it.
Just take things step by step and let everything sail well together, even is it the toughtest sailing part remember follow what your heart tells you. I cant make the choices for you, but promise to there for you when you call. To give you my honest opionion and always bring you back to earth. That's what I can do for you Jie, remember you're never alone because you still have your loved ones and friends out there,that will helpyou much in need. =)
Being happy in life is virtue!
Smile and the world is smiling with you!
=)
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Carrie;eirrac: 11/20/2007 02:05:00 PM ♥
